Chat In The Commons

Have women achieved equality or are we losing all our rights?Clashing narratives tell us that women can do anything, while simultaneously we’re being shackled and shut down. Natalie and Elle chat candidly about how women are actually faring in our cultures and in our lives.

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Oct. 7, 2025

Sexodus | 12 Part 2

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Show Notes

A continued chat about sex. In this episode we reveal the remaining results of our sex survey and chat about the risks women take when we have sex with men - from STDs to pregnancy to men’s sexual violence. We also cover contraception, revenge porn, candaulism, sexual coercion, sex strikes, the 4B movement in South Korea, and the shape that this movement is taking in the West.

EPISODE LINKS

Male Contraception Pill | Dr. Harini Bhat

He Chose Porn Over Me | Melinda Tankard Reist

The Hellscape Files with Melinda Tankard Reist | Subject to Power

Practicing Celibacy | Tera Chantelle TikTok

Men Sharing Wive’s Naked Pictures | Psychology Today

Resistance Through No Sex

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